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Remarks by Leymah Gbowee
Editor’s Note. Leymah Gbowee was hosted by the National Council of Churches
in
Ann Tiemeyer: I’m Rev. Ann Tiemeyer,
director of women’s ministries, and on behalf of so many we welcome you
today, Leymah. The National Council of Churches has an initiation program
called the Circles of Names, in which women nominate women who have been
important in their own faith lives and we thought we would be
[Applause] Leymah Gbowee: Thank you. Thank you. And, oh what a day! What a day!
Well, as I walked into this room, I’ve been calling. I have a Nigerian
friend who is really well-bred and lady-like, nothing like me. She and I
were on the phone as we drove up here and I said, “If I do something to
embarrass you now… What do I do so that I don’t embarrass you? How am I
supposed to act now that I have this title?” And she said, “I’m not wasting
my breath because no one can control you in any way.”
Several years ago, when I was a refugee and a mother of two talkative
children, one three-year-old, one two-year-old and on the brink of having my
third child, we fled to In
almost forty years, I’ve done nothing really great or to let my light shine.
I don’t feel like I’ve done anything extraordinary but to take my little
light and shine it in darkness. The journey has been tough. The road has
been rough but it has been rewarding. Someone asked me, “How has this
changed your life?” And I asked the press guy from Associated Press this
morning, “Do you think I will still buy street food?” And he looked at me,
like, “ok this weird one has won the prize,” and he said, “I think so”, and
then I was like, “Can I still go out and jump all over the place?” and he
said, “Well, that’s a tough one,” but for me this reinforces our message
that women’s roles, women’s needs, women’s priorities in peace processes
throughout the world is crucial; it’s important, and can never be minimized.
There is no way you can fix a community and say you are bringing solutions
to a community if you use half of that community. When men make peace, it’s
not total peace. When women and men make peace, that’s what we call a
holistic peace because we’re not just talking about guns coming down. It’s
talking about the children going back to school. It’s talking about the
broken women becoming whole again, and I think, as we celebrate this award,
to women here in A few
days ago, never thinking of the Nobel Prize, I was at the It’s
time for you Christians to stop getting on planes to [Applause] Ann Tiemeyer: Okay, I think we have time for a few questions, and as we
said, we’re going to take a few first from non-press people. Right down here
in the corner… Question: Your story of peace is amazing. I was especially amazed
by Christian-Muslim women working together and we don’t have a lot of
examples of that. I was wondering if you could share what that was like in
terms of relationship building. Leymah Gbowee: That was interesting. And if I asked people in this room,
who were the problematic groups, who would you say? I’m sure people would
say the Muslims. No, the Christians. Unfortunately, and fortunately, we have
something called the Bible and we have quotes in there so everyday people
came and said the Lord says, what fellowship does dark have with light? What
can wood do with sand? And we were really, really adamant that if you come
with your prophesy and your dreams and your prophesy and your dreams are not
reflective of collectivity or community, you can leave. It was a real tough
experience in the first place. Our world has descended. This country has
descended. Since 9/11, it’s us versus them. We were in that place. We had to
tear down the wall of them to really look at the individuals behind the
walls of discrimination and stereotype. One of the earlier exercises, we did
with Christian and Muslim women was to sit all the Christian and women
together in a room and write down the stereotypes you know about Muslim
women. Positive and negative. And we sat the Muslim women down and said,
write down all the stereotypes you have about Christian women. They wrote it
down. And then, we put all the women together in the room and said put these
up on the wall and you wouldn’t believe the expressions. “Oh, my God, do
they really think this about us?” When we got to the space of positive
stereotypes and perceptions, they thought, “Wow, is this what they really
think of us.” What the Muslim women had written was that the admiration of
Christian women is that they have one husband. They don’t have to share
their husband with other wives, and when they got to the Christian women,
the Christian women said, “Hmm, do you really think so?” Ok, a lot of people
understand where I’m going now. But when they got to that point, it broke it
all down and people said, “Let’s explain our lives to you.” If, God forbid, someone came into this room and started
shooting, they wouldn’t take the Muslims from the Christians or the
Catholics from the Protestants, they would kill. When you give birth, does a
Muslim woman give birth differently than a Christian woman? When a child
dies, is the pain in your heart different as a Muslim or Christian? It was
tearing down all of the walls of division. What discrimination about
Christian, Muslim, ethnic, urban, Republican, Democrat is all about is that
at the end you are no longer looking at an individual but that thing you
have come to associate them with. So by the time we tore down the walls of
that thing, women were looking at their sisters. They were looking at their
mothers. They were looking at their aunties. We didn’t have major crises.
From the initial stage, we had to tear down the walls, the demons we had
regarding the other. Question: I would like to know, how have the years of your work
affected your faith? Leymah Gbowee: Wow, first, thank God the media won’t be an issue
tomorrow. My office called, “The press people will be at the airport to meet
you tomorrow.” And I said ok. And they said afterwards, can we go to the
office and I said, no, I’m going to church. That’s where I’m going. I’m
going to my pastor and I’m asking him to pray that I have a straight head. I
need that. And, they, they said, Okay, well what do we tell the press people
and I said, let them follow me to church. They need a bit of Jesus. Having
said that, I could not have walked this walk all by myself. I’ve been
telling students lately, to do nonviolence, there’s not a single soul that
can fight nonviolence that doesn’t have a connection with something I call a
higher power. Dr. King had that connection. Gandhi had that connection.
Former President Mandela had that connection. Bishop Tutu had that
connection. His Holiness the Dali Lama. How do you look at the enemy and
still tell them the truth? You have to be able to go back and kneel to
someone you’re in total submission to and say by my own strength, I can’t do
this. My faith has really helped me so while I led peace, by life wasn’t
always peaceful. If
you read my book, you’ll read my struggles, different things at different
times. I have six children. Beyond the work I do, how do you think I still
deal with that? It’s Jesus because sometimes I look at those children and if
I reacted the way I thought to react, I’d step out of my house a madwomen. I
told the joke at the Clinton Global Initiative, I was coming back from
Today, God has chosen to honor me. My uncle called me from my village and I
think the driver was thinking, “What is she speaking?” because I was trying
to speak to the people and this village and explain what he award means. My
mother lost her mind today. She says she’s all over Question: A few months ago, I was at a gathering, where there was a
presentation that discussed the possibility that maybe certain wars get more
coverage because of something involved called priceless resources and it
really bothers me because in our situation back home, my dream is that there
will come a day when the powers that be can see that every woman, every
child, every human being is more priceless than the diamonds, the oil, the
other so-called precious resources. How can we make this goal a prominent
one? Leymah Gbowee: I
think this is a message that all of us should have. I know that the films
from Abby and others have brought this message to the table. You must ask
yourself, why I’m Philip Jenks, the media relations officer for the
National Council of Churches and we certainly welcome the media who are here
today, and we welcome your questions, as well. If you would be so kind as to
identify yourself by name and your outlet, we would be happy to give you a
microphone. Jennifer Crompton: Hi,
I’m Jennifer Crompton. I’m with Odyssey Networks and I’m also a pastor at
First Avenue Christian Church. You spoke so eloquently a few minutes ago
about our upside down society and how we must use our resources. The Leymah Gbowee: Hmm… you know until the
Nobel Peace Prize, I would have said, you are setting me up not to get my
visa renewed. [Laughter]
But the questions I would ask you, is if you had the opportunity to meet
with congress, what would you ask them? That’s the question, because you
see, and I’m talking about Liberians parliament. Someone just came back and
said, “Oh, my God, how do you deal with those sexest men in that house.” I’m
not talking about the This country, when you go
out in the world, girls want to be like American women, and if this is the
place where freedom of speech and expression is at 100 percent and you feel
like women’s health and priorities are important and that money should go to
those issues, the money is being cut in my parliament, what are your rules?
If it’s the New York House, it’s time for people to march from Manhattan and
occupy that space and say, we’re not leaving until you hear us because the
thing about they way politics is being conducted, and I’m talking about
Liberia, there’s cutting down of the resources for poor people. We are
supposed to be the masses they represent. In essence, one minister of
Liberians government said, when they do these things, they are taking the
‘m’ from the masses. You know the spelling of the rest.
[Laughter]
So they are simply saying to us, you are fools because you will vote for us
again and we will keep treating you the way we treat you. So they take all
the attention from the critical things that are hurting us and put it on
Obama’s birth certificate or someone being overweight. And, I think the
important thing for us is to bring the discussion to their doorstep. We will
not accommodate this. You need to do this for the good of the people because
when people say they are doing things for the good of people, the people
need to start speaking out. It’s no longer enough for you to vote for people
who aren’t going to stand up for your rights and priorities, and I’m
speaking about Linda Bloom: Linda Bloom, United
Methodist News Service. Obviously your movement paved the way for the
election of the first female president, Ellen Johnson Sirleaf, and I was
wondering if you would talk a little bit about your relationship to her. Leymah Gbowee: Every
time President Sirleaf sees me coming, she’s weary, because I will raise
those important questions. The last time someone asked her, “Madam, do you
know Leymah?” And, she said, “Yes, Leymah and I talk about all kinds of
things.” All kinds of things meaning the politics, the social and our own
lives. Over time, President Sirleaf and I have gotten to the point where she
respects my work, she respects my opinion, because I have come off, and I
think being there in I can also go to the President with some very unique
ideas and she can say, Leymah, this is a great idea. I think we should do
this. So over time, we’ve had this collaboration going on and I’ve been
honored a few times to hear her call me personally in and say, I think you
should join my government. And, I still say, I like bouncing around. I’ve
not caught up to be a minister or ambassador or something. Please, just let
me protest and do things I like to do best. So we have a professional
working relationship and I have a lot of respect for this woman. When it
comes to work, she’s well disciplined. When it comes to being focused, she
knows exactly what she wants and some say they like the way she kicks men’s
butt when it comes to politics. But, yes, we do have a very good
professional working relationship, kind of like a mother-daughter, show me
the way, if I ever need to find the way in my professional life; we have
that kind of relationship. Huffington Post Reporter:
Question about the uprisings in Leymah Gbowee:
Chris Herlinger: Has
the election of Leymah Gbowee: Six
years. Yes. If you had gone to Reporter: How do we empower women to empower men? Leymah Gbowee: I think men already have their powers. Where we are now,
we need to come to a place and have a conversation about the whole concept
of empowerment. A man once said to men, a lot of men don’t understand the
concept of empowerment. Because in order to empower, you must give up some
of your power and we find ourselves in places where some of the people
aren’t willing to give up their power. So if we started sustained
conversations about issues of women’s rights and starting bringing it home
because sometimes we have it to way up in the clouds. I was in the UK last year with 350 Girl Guides and one
of the little girls said to me that every Sunday when she opened up the
local newspaper she was really troubled by the center spread of a naked
teenager or a scantily dressed teenager and she did her research and found
the name of the company that supported that ad and found out that the guy
that paid for that ad every Sunday had a daughter so she gathered a
community of her friends and scheduled an appointment with him. She said,
“Ms. Gbowee, we got there and he thought we were going to talk Girl Scout
cookies and candies because we’re all 15, 16 years old. By the time we sat
down and started talking to him, I took a copy of the newspaper out and
said, ‘Sir, if this was your daughter in the center spread of the newspaper
every Sunday, how would you feel?’” He did not respond. She said, “I think I
succeeded because the following Sunday, we never saw that ad run again.” Bring it home. Even with the toughest gangsters, the
toughest rebel leader, you want to touch them, touch their mothers, touch
their daughters. Bring it home. Bring your voice straight home. I think
we’ve been beating around the bush, too concerned with how uncomfortable we
make people feel. There is nothing comfortable about an abused woman. There
is nothing comfortable about a rape victim. There’s nothing comfortable
about the objectification of young women in the media as sex objects. We
need to take the conversation out of the comfort zone and into a bigger
area. If they kick you out of their offices, find another way around it.
And, if they kick you out of that space, find another way around it. Gone
are the days when we sat down and felt that someone would deliver it to us.
If you go back into the history of this country, the slave lives, the
plantation lives of the African-Americans of this country did not end by
people sitting and saying God will deliver freedom. There were people like
Harriet Tubman. There were other people when the Civil Rights Movement was
going on, when segregation was going on. Dr. King, Rosa Parks, and all of
these people. You
see, in
That’s just to show you how sick it is, and it’s not just for here. Africa,
[Applause] Thank you very much for coming. Ms. Gbowee has had a
complicated day and has a complicated agenda still to follow so we’re going
to wrap it up again, but thank you very much for your presence.
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