BUILDING BRIDGES & THE LONG ISLAND MULTI-FAITH FORUM

The Long Island Council of Churches and Auburn Theological Seminary launched the LIMFF in 1993 to help people in our area understand their neighbors. The LIMFF unites hundreds of Islanders from eleven different faith communities and many races, nationalities, and cultures. Our volunteers represent the Bahai Faith, the Brahma Kumaris, Buddhism, Christianity, Hinduisms, Islam, Jainism, Judaism, Native American Spirituality, Sikhism, and Unitarian Universalism. If you are not familiar with all these traditions or did not know that they are your neighbors, you may need a Building Bridges program! The Forum has presented more than 240 "Building Bridges" presentations and Multi-Faith Festivals in schools, workplaces, and houses of worship, for audiences ranging from ten to 1100. While most of our programs are done in English, we have also been able to accommodate requests for Spanish language and bi-lingual presentations and could try other languages as well.

Tom Goodhue
Executive Director
Long Island Council of Churches

How To Request a Building Bridges program

Requests should be made to Bernice Suplee (631-665-7033 or jbsuplee@aol.com). Let her know:

  • Who is the contact person? Daytime and evening phone numbers? Fax number or email?

  • What can you tell us about the audience? How many people do you expect?

  • What location, day and time do you want? Please do not ask when we are available - we do not know until we ask for volunteers: tell Bernice your preferred date and she will let you know if this conflicts with a previously-scheduled presentation. Please allow at least a month for us to recruit volunteers. Due to travel time, we cannot schedule presentations before 9:00 a.m. Please bear in mind, too, that the time you pick may affect which faith communities can participate: observant Jews probably cannot come on Friday nor Christians on Sunday morning, because this is their worship time. If you want a particular faith community, please consult their holiday schedule to see if this is a major holiday for them. Calendars can be found at: www.pbs.org/wnet/religionandethics/calendar or www.interfaithcalendar.org.

  • How much time is available for our presentation? It is best to allow an hour and a half for a presentation, though we can do shorter presentations by bringing fewer speakers. We find it hard to convey anything meaningful in less than 40 minutes, however.

  • Are there particular topics you want panelists to cover? We avoid politics and foreign policy, and our panelists are not professional theologians, but they can address a wide variety of questions about how they practice their faith in the daily lives, such as the religious holidays they celebrate, what they want their neighbors to know about their customs and beliefs, and how to get along with one another in our increasingly diverse communities. Do you want them to tell what they have learned from their tradition about tolerance? Discrimination? Health and sickness? Dating? Marriage? Managing money?

  • Are there particular faiths that you want represented? We may not have volunteers from every faith community you want on a particular date but we can come pretty close. Please remember, too, that the audience may need to learn about faith communities that have no house of worship in their area but are present nonetheless: you might not think of inviting Jain, Bahai, or Buddhist speakers because they have no temple in your neighborhood, but they may still live and work near you. Please note, also, that we will be sending representatives of diverse religious traditions, not members of particular ethnic groups. Hosts sometimes invite us to multi-cultural celebrations and are disappointed if our volunteers do not conform to the racial composition they were expecting. If you are particularly interested in the faiths that are rooted in the Middle East, we will try to find Jewish, Christian, Muslim, and Baha'i volunteers, but the Muslim may not be from India and the Bahai from Brooklyn - which in itself may help break down stereotypes.

  • Who will set up the DVD player to show Faiths of Long Island? If you expect a large audience please set up microphones and check the sound before the program. We usually begin our program by showing this 30-minute DVD, which gives an overview of all the faith communities in the LIMFF. If time is limited we urge you to order our video and show it in advance. And watching it may give you a better idea what topics you want our panelists to address or what faiths you might like to see represented. We are sure you will want your own copy of this unique resource. The suggested donation is $30, plus $5 for shipping and handling. Checks can be sent to the LICC, 1644 Denton Green, Hempstead, NY 11550.

  • Would you like copies of educational materials to distribute in advance for class preparation or advance approval by school administrators? We have prepared one-page descriptions of each of our faiths that have been reviewed and vetted by our faith communities and school officials. Studying this booklet in advance helps students and teachers to get more out of our presentation.

  • Who will send directions to Bernice for the panelists? Where should they park?

  • Would you like flyers describing the program to publicize your event? If so, how many?

  • Can your group make a contribution to the program? The panelists are all volunteers, but we depend on donations to cover the costs of materials, mailings, and such in order to continue this program. While there is no set fee for houses of worship and not-for-profit community groups, we expect at least $100 for a Building Bridges presentation from a business or school or any course or event where tuition, registration, or admission is charged. Eastern BOCES has approved the LIMFF for funding, and school districts elsewhere have worked out BOCES funding, too. We would be glad to mail, email, or fax an invoice for the program. Checks can be made out to the Long Island Multi-Faith Forum and mailed c/o Long Island Council of Churches, 1644 Denton Green, Hempstead, NY 11550.


LONG ISLAND MULTI-FAITH FORUM REQUEST FORM

Name of Sponsoring Organization:___________________________________

Address:________________________________________________________

Your Name:______________________________________________________

Phone Number (s):_________________________________________________

E-Mail:__________________________________________________________

Date(s) requested:__________________________________________________
(Please allow at least a month for us to line up volunteers)

Location of event:___________________________________________________

Size and nature of the Audience:_______________________________________

Do you need speakers fluent in Spanish? Some other language? ______________

Any topics you'd like us to cover?:______________________________________
(Please note that we do not deal with politics and foreign policy.)

Are any of the following religions of particular interest to you? (Please circle)

Baha'i Faith        Christianity        Judaism        Sikhism        Brahma Kumaris        Hinduism        Islam        Unitarian Universalism        Buddhism        Jainism        Native American Spirituality       

Who will send directions? Name___________________________________ Phone_________________

Would you like us to show our 30-minute DVD Faiths of Long Island? Yes____ No____

Who will set up equipment?______________

Is your group able to make a donation to the Multi-Faith Forum to help us continue this program? Yes____ No______

Please fill out this form and send it to:

Bernice Suplee
1363 Lombardy Blvd.
Bay Shore, New York 11706
jbsuplee@aol.com



Guidelines for Building Bridges Panelists & Moderators

  1. Proselytizing is not permitted in our presentations. It is okay to state differences but not to compare other faiths with one's own in an unfavorable way. It is important, for example, to answer questions about the origins of your faith community without unfairly ascribing the persecution of your founders to another community: Sikhs can honestly describe the suffering of their early gurus by the Mughal rulers of India, but it is unfair to blame Islam for this. It is better - and more accurate - to say "Jesus was executed by the Roman Empire and its lackeys, some of whom were his own people," rather than "the Jews killed Jesus."

  2. Panelists who have converted must refrain from derogatory remarks about their former faith. If the audience asks, "Why did you leave your former religion?" the moderators should rephrase this in a form that all panelists can answer, such as, "What most attracted you to your faith community - either the one to which you converted or the one in which you chose to remain?"

  3. Keep your answers to questions as brief as possible, and allow all panelists an equal opportunity to speak. The moderator should indicate how much time each will have. If a panelist exceeds the allotted time the moderator should give a signal or ask the panelist to wrap up his/her reply. If the audience asks questions only of one panelist, the moderator should give other panelists a chance to respond or ask, "Does anyone have a question for our other panelists?"

  4. The moderator should contact panel members in advance to make sure they are clear about the time, location, directions, and nature of the audience. The moderator should indicate in advance what questions, he or she intends to ask at the beginning, so panelists can prepare.

  5. Moderators should ask follow up questions if either the question or the response needs clarification. It is important to honor the questions from the audience, even if they need to be rephrased, or they are beyond the scope of our program, or seem silly to you personally. If your religion has no position on body piercing, you may find the question, "Can you wear earrings in your religion?" a bizarre question, but to the teenager who asks, this may be an important issue of identity and faithfulness to his faith community.

  6. Moderators should put "tent" signs on the panelists' table identifying each faith community.

  7. If more than one panelist from the same faith arrives at the presentation, the moderator should seat one person at the table and the second person in the audience as a backup. Backups should respond to questions only if moderators refer questions to them. Only those who have been trained by the LIMFF will be seated as panelists. If an untrained substitute shows up for a presentation, the moderator should politely ask them to sit in the audience and observe (which is a part of the training process) rather than be a panelist for this presentation.

  8. The moderator should tell the audience that the panelists are not professional theologians and that some questions - such as politics and foreign policy - are beyond the scope of our program: panelists speak as individual volunteers from their community who want their neighbors to understand how they practice their beliefs in their daily lives here. If someone asks an inappropriate question, the moderator should politely but firmly - and with a smile, if possible - rephrase it some way that addresses our personal religious practices. How to end terrorism or solve the Israeli-Palestinian conflict is out-of-bounds, for example, but it might be fine to ask, "What have you learned from your faith about how to respond to violence and injustice?"

  9. If the host group wants to supply a moderator (such as a teacher who might introduce the program and help with crowd control during a school presentation), we welcome them as hosts but insist on having our own moderator to ensure panelists follow our procedures.

  10. Moderators should pass out the evaluation sheets, collect them, and return them so that questionnaires can be tabulated, which helps us do a better job. In a school setting, check before distributing these to anyone other than teachers. It also is helpful to ask the audience at the end, unless this would be inappropriate (in a public school, for example), "Would you like to become a panelist yourself?"

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