PRELUDE, March 2002
FROM THE EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR:
"How Should We Pray When We Come Together?"
One of the good things to emerge out of the Sept. 11 tragedy has been a wave
of ecumenical prayer vigils (involving several denominations) and interfaith
ones (involving several religions) and a renewed interest in joint worship
services celebrating Thanksgiving, Martin Luther King's birthday, and such.
Many local clergy associations have proved their worth by gathering people to
pray, comfort one another, and bring us together across lines of race and
religion.
As the members of our new Mid-Island Steering Committee have noticed, though,
they are being thrown into hastily-planned services where they are not
entirely comfortable. Even some long- established clergy associations have
not had full and frank discussion of how they want to pray or worship
together. Each of us had seen of interfaith worship done with grace and
sensitivity and others which increased tensions between those whom the
organizers had hoped to unite. Bringing together people of distinctly
differing worship styles presents fresh challenges:
- Should we say a common prayer together or should each leader pray in the
style of their own tradition?
- Is it right for one congregation or religious leader to say what is
unacceptable in joint worship or does this need to be negotiated by all
parties?
- Is it okay to ask those from a free-prayer or spontaneous-prayer tradition
to stick to a script?
- What can the host congregation reasonably ask guests to do--or refrain from
doing?
- How do we decide who gets invited to come?
- How do we decide who gets to lead?
- Should Christians pray "in the name of Jesus" when non-Christians are
present?
- Should we stick to Old Testament texts if there will be Jews present?
- Should we focus on what unites us and what we share in common or explore
the ways in which we differ and call for mutual respect?
These questions are important to both ecumenical and interfaith cooperation.
It took extensive planning, compromise, and negotiation to bring together
evangelical and liberal Christians, Protestant and Catholic, pentecostals and
orthodox, "mainline" and independent at Jesus Alive 2000. It wasn't easy,
and sometimes it was painful, but we all grew in grace (as we Methodists like
to say). It is worth the effort, I believe, to hash out these issues.
To help Long Islanders wrestle with this topic, this year's Annual Meeting of
LICC (Thursday, April 11, from 11:30 to 2:00 at Temple Beth David in Commack)
will focus on how we should pray when we come together, with panelists from a
variety of faiths and worship styles sharing their thoughts and experiences.
I hope you'll be there--and that you'll discuss this topic in your own
community.
Shalom/Salaam/Shanti/Pax,
Tom
LICC OFFERS WORKSHOPS ON LOANS, CREDIT, AND FINANCES
At the Long Island Council of Churches we see many vulnerable people who
have been exploited by loan sharks, check-cashing places, and abusive
lenders. At our Social Services offices in Hempstead and Riverhead we
regularly end up trying to help those who are already in deep financial
trouble, often because they have been victimized by predatory lending.
We are launching a new program to help prevent these tragedies and to help
people get a fair deal from banks and other financial institutions. We are
planning our first presentation for sometime in late April at a congregation
in Riverhead or nearby. This presentation would run about an hour and a half,
anytime in late April. We will arrange for speakers, publicity, educational
materials, free credit checks for those who come, and other freebies. All
you need to supply is the location and refreshments. The first workshop will
be at Unity Baptist Church in Mattituck, sometime late in April. If you
would like this sort of a workshop at your congregation, please contact Tom
Goodhue or Sara Weiss at 565-0290, send a fax (516-565-0291) or e-mail me at
licchemp@aol.com.
IDEAS YOU CAN USE
Holy Humor Sunday
The Fellowship of Merry Christians, an ecumenical group of religious humorists and pranksters,
has encouraged churches to rediscover the ancient tradition of celebrating
the period after Easter as a time of sharing God's laughter at death, evil,
and human foolishness. What better way could there be to affirm our belief in
resurrection than to laugh at death? "Bright Sunday" or "Holy Humor Sunday"
is observed in a growing number of congregations each year. FMC's "Joyful
Noiseletter" recently shared some fresh ideas for this day:
- Encourage folks to dress as wildly as they like--such as the choir coming
in bathrobes rather than their usual attire.
- Have joke-breaks in which parishioners are invited to share their favorites.
- Do a sermon which is at least half funny stories and humor--and perhaps
keep this ratio the following week!
To join the FMC and get further ideas for Bright Sunday, call 1-800-877-2757
or visit joyfulnoiseletter.com.
MORE RESPONSES TO THE TERROR ATTACKS:
Here are some addition resources to help people deal with the aftermath of
Sept. 11:
- Very few organizations are doing much to help the thousands of people
who lost their jobs as a result of the attacks but who did not work south
of Canal Street in Manhattan. While some who worked in the Financial
District are reportedly receiving payments of their $10,000 a month
mortgages, the only agencies on Long Island which seem to be helping those
such as limo drivers and airline employees are:
- the LICC (we have a few thousand dollars to help these folks)
- Catholic Charities
- the Salvation Army
- St. Vincent de Paul
- Church World Service (which the LICC and many of you have long
supported) has established an Emotional & Spiritual Care Resource Center
to help folks find the long-term support they need for their psyches and
souls (1-800-226-7962)
- CWS's Disaster Response Program also is providing long-term
trauma & grief training for clergy at Eastern Mennonite University in
Virginia (and we intend to tap their experience to care for clergy and others
on Long Island). The number to call is 212-870-3151.
- FEGS & Project Liberty will bring free seminars called "Life after 9/11" to
your congregation, workplace, or community group. Call 516-496-7550,
ext. 115, or 631-874-2700, ext. 201.
- The Victims Information Bureau of Suffolk (VIBS) is offering several
different types of support groups for:
- those who survived or witnessed the attack on the World Trade Center,
- emergency personnel involved in recovery efforts, and
- those who lost a loved one in the attacks.
VIBS also can help with Crime Victims Board compensation applications. Their
services are free and confidential.
For more info, call 631-360-3606 or email hotline@vibs.org.
- Workshops on how to help folks cope with the crisis are available to
your congregation or community group through FEGS & Project Liberty. Call
516-496-7550 or 631-874-2700, ext. 201 to schedule a workshop.
- Project Liberty and the Mental Health Assn. of Nassau County are
offering a stress management for crisis counselors workshop on Thursday,
January 31 at Pilgrim Psychiatric Center in West Brentwood, with a session
for outreach workers from 9:00 to noon and another for supervisors and
coordinators of outreach workers from 1 to 4. Call 515-489-2322, ext. 219
to register.
NEEDED/OFFERED
Needed:
- St. Vincent de Paul, one of the LICC's partners in serving the poor, is
looking for locations in Nassau & Suffolk for its collection boxes. They
have designed a clothing collection box which prevents stray pets (or humans)
from pawing through the donations, the box carries both LICC and St.
Vincent's labels, they will empty the box as often as needed, they distribute
clothing at minimal cost to clients with maximum dignity, and they even
recycle any rags or damaged clothing which is received. For further
information, or to arrange placement of a collection box, call Tom Abbate at
1-800-884-7837.
- Church World Service is seeking a church in Western Nassau to be a depot or
collection place for donations of CWS kits on May 4 from 9 a.m. to noon.
Call Grace MacMillan at 516-785-3951.
- There continues to be a great need at the Nassau County jail for
easy-to-read translations of the Bible, and our chaplains find that the
American Bible Society's "Contemporary English Version" seems to be the best
for those they serve there. If you would like to donate these please contact
Dick Lehman at 631-277-0174.
Offered:
- The First Presbyterian Church in Jamaica (89-60 164th St.) offers Labyrinth
Walks at no charge on Wednesdays from 6:00-8:30 p.m., every Wednesday in
Lent, plus April 3, May 1, and June 5. For more information on this
devotional experience, call the Rev. Nancy Schaffer, Minister of Pastoral
Care (and a chaplain for the LICC) at 718-526-4775, ext. 11). Arrangements
can be made also for group walks, a great idea for a youth group,
confirmation class, and others.
- Bob Harrison, who has been photographing every house of worship he can find
in Nassau County, would be glad to exhibit some of his photos in your
congregation, at your business, or community center. Call him at
516-781-6644 to request a display. His exhibit of African American houses of
worship runs through March 22 at the African American Museum in Hempstead.
Call 516-572-0730 for hours, directions, or other information on this
exhibition.
- Simpson United Methodist Church in Amityville has space available. They
would be happy to share their classrooms and fellowship hall daytimes Monday
through Saturday and evenings on Saturdays and Sundays, and can share their
sanctuary anytime other than Sunday mornings. Call 631-789-2569.
JOBS AVAILABLE:
- The Long Island Coalition for a National Health Plan (to which the LICC
belongs) is seeking both volunteers and paid workers (who are themselves
uninsured) to check the free health care policies of 18 not-for-profit
hospitals on the Island which have not yet been surveyed. This survey has
already had a positive impact in guaranteeing access to medical care for the
uninsured at several hospitals in our area. Call 516-829-1225.
- The United Methodist Church of Huntington-Cold Spring Harbor is seeking a
full-time Director of Children, Youth, Families & Young Adult Ministry to
develop and coordinate programs of education, counseling, and outreach under
the direction of the pastor. A master's degree in education, social work, or
religious education is preferred. Fax resume and salary requirements to
631-427-5290 or mail to 180 West Neck Rd., Huntington, NY 11743.
- Woodbury United Methodist Church needs a part-time administrative secretary
with computer skills, including knowledge of Microsoft Word. 16 hours a week
from Sept. through June/8 hours a week in July & August. Call Bill Harrison
at 516-249-7377 or 516-692-7179.
