PRELUDE, January 2001
FROM THE EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR:
LESSONS FOR THE NEW MILLENNIUM
Recently administrators in the Kings Park School District did
something very wise: they invited local religious leaders to a
discussion of how public schools should deal with holidays. They
already knew most pastors, priests, and rabbis in their area, but
they asked me to help them reach out to other faith communities,
as well. I put them in touch with Arvind Vora, a Jain who chairs
the Long Island Multi-Faith Forum, Sanaa Nadim, a Muslim Chaplain
at SUNY Stony Brook, and Frank White Eagle Schaffer, a leader of
Native American spirituality--all of whom live in Kings Park.
We had a wonderful, wide-ranging exchange. We dealt with
everything from stereotyping in social studies to what sort of
artwork should be displayed in the corridors during December.
The educators gained a new appreciation of how secularizing a
holiday such as Christmas can offend devout parents and why
claiming all faiths are the same is misleading and infuriating.
We religious leaders learned, I think, why public schools cannot
easily bring parents into the classroom to teach their
traditions.
With the help of an attorney from the Anti-Defamation League who
specializes in church-state law, we crafted a consensus:
- The official school holiday calendar should list the major
feasts of as many traditions as possible, even if school is in
session, so that teachers will not hassle Orthodox Christian
students for being absent on their Holy Thursday, for example,
("What are you trying to pull--that was last week") or Bahai
children for missing school on the Bahalluah's birthday.
- If student-created art is displayed in the hallway, it is
perfectly appropriate to put up theirs which include religious
symbols. What didn't make sense to us was pretending that a
Menorah or a creche are secular signs of the season.
- Teachers and other staff should receive training how to
appropriately teach about religion without promoting any
particular religious belief.
- Teachers and parents should be encouraged to learn about the
faith traditions of their neighbors, perhaps through the Multi-
Faith Forum's "Building Bridges" program.
- We will meet again to continue this dialogue.
There are hope-filled lessons here for all of us:
- Our area is becoming ever more diverse.
- The LICC already has forged strong relationships with widely
varied Christians and many non-Christians.
- We do not have to agree in order to treat each other with
respect.
- If we are willing to talk, to listen, and to learn, we can
probably work things out.
Shalom,
Tom
IDEAS YOU CAN USE:
- Bilingual worship--
- It might add a great deal to ecumenical/interfaith worship in your community if you make use of languages other than English. In the Southold, for example, the Rev. Sarah Barber-Braun of First Universalist Church has sought Spanish-speaking singers and worship leaders for the local interfaith Thanksgiving service. You might ask a cantor to chant in Hebrew or invite an Orthodox priest to offer the Benediction in Greek or Russian. The LICC may be able to help you find multi- lingual clergy and laity in your area for a Martin Luther King Day service, Week of Prayer for Christian Unity, World Day of Prayer, etc. Give our Executive Director a call if you'd like his help.
- Interfaith Fundraising--
- You might be able to broaden the appeal of your next fundraising event by co-sponsoring it with another congregation or faith community. The Jewish Centre of Bay Shroe and the United Methodist Church of Bay Shore have teamed up to present a concert with the professional harpist Nadine May. Their concert will be January 6 at 8 P.M. at the Jewish Centre, which is located at 26 North Clinton Avenue, between Union Blvd. and Montauk Highway. For further information, call Michael Dinh-Cohen at 631-665-1140.
DID YOU KNOW?
- The LICC distributed 170 Thanksgiving baskets this year, with donations coming from U.S. Postal Service employees, All Angels Episcopal Church in Seaford, Garden City High School,
the Long Island Mar Thoma Church, and many others.
- Students at St. Isidore School in Riverhead recently collected nine van loads of food for the LICC through Newsday's FutureCorps program. The motto of the FutureCorps student projects is "kids making a difference where you live." This is certainly what Newsday and the children of St. Isidore have done. Many thanks!
- Long Island Blood Services has a new collection site at 333 Merrick Avenue, in Rockville Centre and one at 200 Old Country Road, Suite 451, in Melville. The need for blood is urgent!
- that the Long Island United Way (to which the LICC belongs) operates an excellent information and referral service to help you find the agency which can help those in need. It is called First Call for Help and the number is 631-595-6400 (on the East End, call 631-727-0889) and it is staffed Monday through Friday from 8:30 to 4:30. They are very good about returning calls and have proven invaluable both to the LICC Social Services offices and to many LICC clergy. This is one more reason to support the Long Island's United Way!
LOOKING FOR A SPEAKER? A PREACHER?
The rules governing Medicare, home health care, and hospice care are increasingly complex. Long-time LICC friend Grace Parker encourages you to invite Ginger Slionski of Empire Medicare Services to speak to your congregation or civic group. There is no charge for these presentations. You can reach Slionski at 631-244-5211 or 631-244-5130.
Jim Claffey coordinates the Fight for Families Coalition (to which the LICC belongs), a group which is working to protect the poor and needy as Nassau County struggles with its fiscal crisis. A former priest who has extensive experience with Catholic Charities, Jim is available to speak to church, synagogue, or community groups or to guest-preach, anywhere in the County. You can reach him at 516-483-1110, ext. 3.
NEEDED/OFFERED:
- Needed:
- Your newsletter! Are you already sending a copy of your newsletter to the LICC. If not, please do so. Your congregation may be doing something we can help publicize.
- The LICC needs donations of computers, Pentium I or more recent, for our Hempstead office, our Riverhead office, and our Hempstead Emergency Food Center.
- The LICC needs a computer work station and three swivel chairs with arm rests for our Riverhead office, a round table about 5' in diameter and chairs for our Hempstead office, and 2 swivel chairs and 2 non-swivel chairs for our Hempstead Emergency Food Center.
- Information about Spanish-language worship. Many Hispanics on Long Island have trouble finding services in their native tongue. If you know of any, please call Tom Goodhue (516-565- 0290 or 631-727-2210), fax him (516-565-0390), or email him (licc@netzero.com). He'll compile this info and share it in a future edition of "The Prelude."
- The Interfaith Nutrition Network's guests need toothpaste, toothbrushes, razors, shaving cream, deodorant, soap, shampoo, disposable diapers, umbrellas, warm gloves, winter hats, and new underwear and socks. If you have these to donate, please call 516-486-8506.
- Offered:
- The LICC has a number of older 386 and 486 computers in our Hempstead office to give away, plus many monitors, keyboards, and mice. We also have a Gestetner booklet-maker and supplies for the asking.
- New videotapes available from the LICC lending library: "Gloria--the Life of Christ" (a new, contemporary oratorio), "David Hare's Via Dolorosa" (about the playwrights trip to Israel & Palestine), and "American Byzantine" (about the Shrine of the Immaculate Conception in D.C.).
- The Parish Resource Center is offering a Youth Leaders Gathering on Saturday, January 20, from 9:00 to noon and a presentation by Tony Campolo on March 10 at SUNY Westbury. Call 631-821-2255 for registration or further information.
- St. Peter's Episcopal Church in Bay Shore is offering a Choral Workshop February 16-18. Directors, choir members, and interested singers are invited to a weekend of sacred music led by Margarite Brooks from the Yale School of Music. Rehearsals are Friday 7:00-9:30 P.M., Saturday 9-4, and Sunday at 2 P.M., concluding with a 4:00 public performance to which all are invited. For a registration form or further information, call Cynthia Holden at 631-665-0051, ext. 12.
- Job Openings:
- The LICC needs a clerk Monday through Friday, 10 to 4, at our Hempstead Emergency Food Center. The job requires some occasional light cleaning and lifting. Call Harold Snedeker at 516- 565-0390.
- Community Presbyterian Church in Deer Park seeks an organist/choir director to play an Allen electronic organ for a 10:15 Sunday service (9:30 A.M. in summer) and lead 7:30 P.M. Thursday rehearsal. About $9000 a year, depending on education and experience. Contact Anita or Art Ireland at 631-667-2954
- Community United Methodist Church in Massapequa seeks an organist/choir director for one Sunday service and four choirs. Call 516-541-7008.
- The United Methodist Church of Lake Ronkokoma needs a Director of Music for adult, youth, children's, and bell choirs. The salary is negotiable. Contact Pastor Stuart Thody at 631-588- 5856 or fax a resume to 631-588-0753.
- St. James United Methodist in Lynbrook needs an organist-choir director who can play a 3- manual pipe organ and lead both an adult choir and a junior choir. The salary is $14,000. Call the Rev. John Fahey at 516-599-5148 or fax a esume to 516-599-5847.
